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The Metaphor Index

General encouragement

barrie.anson@virgin.net wrote...

Do you wish to be listed anonymously? No

Which area is your meta4 useful in? It could be used against depression, for general encouragement or healing, confidence boosting, etc.

Which country are you in? England

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The other day a friend of mine, who is a gardener, was telling me a story that he thought summed up the difficulties of life and the need to keep on keeping on whatever happened.

He asked me if I had ever thought of a seed deep in the dark earth that begins to germinate at a certain moment in time when the conditions are right. There is blackness all around it but there comes a moment when the earth warms a little and the soil is sufficiently damp to set its life in motion. It germinates and the seed having sprung to life has to push its way upwards through the blackness drawn by the warmth of sun. There is that magical moment when it pushes its way to the surface and then the plant sees the sun and finds that it is not alone.

One moment it is in darkness and the next it is illuminated by the sun. There are others like it that have made the journey through the darkness. The light or the light, of course, is not the end of the journey. In fact it is just the beginning. Now the plant's strength has to be tested against the elements until it grows strong enough to flower.

The new plant following its evolutionary path will encounter many trials, tests and difficulties as it battles with the heat or cold, drought or floods or strong winds. It is a time of great confusion.

All plants face similar problems but in different degrees. Growing is not always comfortable. The plant may wonder why the gardener does not save it a lot of effort by protecting it from the elements and letting it take the easy route? The gardener would argue that the flowers produced by unnatural growth can be delicate and prone to wither unlike its counterpart that has weathered the storms, droughts and cold and is likely to produce strong, fragrant flowers. He thinks it best to allow his plants to grow in difficult conditions so that they can be thoroughly tested, become stronger and able to weather future storms gaining their strength from tough conditions.

Thinking of humans he said, we have to prepare ourselves to go through dark places as well as sunlit ones. In a human life it may be easier to go round a pond instead of falling into it but, if getting a ducking teaches us to swim, it has its value. Rather than looking upon such events as obstacles it is better to consider them as opportunities.

Like plants all humans have different experiences but all have gained strength by living through them. In human life the great upheavals, changes and decisions that come in the course of a human life can be regarded as relatively minor although we might not think it at the time!

My gardener friend ended his observation by saying that it was also important for all humans to find time to smell the roses. He said most of us try too hard, expending so much energy thinking and planning butmissing out on the joy of the moment.

I think he might be right.

Adapted from the book "THE EIGHTH COLOUR" by Barrie Anson


Thanks Barrie!!

 

 

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